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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
		<link>http://darrencalhoun.com/2009/09/the-nines-church-leadership-insight-live-today/comment-page-1/#comment-4685</link>
		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 19:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who&#039;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, &lt;br&gt;and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who&#39;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, <br />and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
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		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 14:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
		<link>http://darrencalhoun.com/2009/09/the-nines-church-leadership-insight-live-today/comment-page-1/#comment-3119</link>
		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 14:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who&#039;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, &lt;br&gt;and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who&#39;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, <br />and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
		<link>http://darrencalhoun.com/2009/09/the-nines-church-leadership-insight-live-today/comment-page-1/#comment-3101</link>
		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 13:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who have been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 19,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
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		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 13:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Darren - Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &quot;The Nines.&quot; &lt;br&gt;So I Googled &quot;the Nines and leadership&quot; and a whole bunch of sites came up.&lt;br&gt;The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. &lt;br&gt;You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just went over your site a little and Praise God,&lt;br&gt;seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have seen the dangers of &quot;Titles,&quot;  of &quot;Pastors,&quot; and of &quot;leaders.&quot; &lt;br&gt;Spiritual abuse for both the &quot;leader&quot; and those “being led” by man.&lt;br&gt;My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m not not new to &quot;ministering healing&quot; to those who have been abused&lt;br&gt;by those who &quot;thought” they were “leaders.&quot;&lt;br&gt;Folks who&#039;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &quot;the religious system&quot; &lt;br&gt;with it&#039;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &quot;heavy weights&quot; put on folks shoulders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, &lt;br&gt;&quot;so called leaders,&quot; who can&#039;t do it anymore. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to run the show, please so many masters and &lt;br&gt;realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#039;s leaders, &lt;br&gt;and of course Jesus. &lt;br&gt;Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#039;s tough; Yes?&lt;br&gt;Preaching every week... and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If &quot;pastors&quot; (as we see them today) are of God? &lt;br&gt;He&#039;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Wonder why?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. &lt;br&gt;At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)&lt;br&gt;• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.&lt;br&gt;• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.&lt;br&gt;• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.&lt;br&gt;• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.&lt;br&gt;• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation...&lt;br&gt;• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.&lt;br&gt;• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.&lt;br&gt;•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Think we might have a problem Darren?&lt;br&gt;70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#039;t have a close friend. Hmmm?&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s who is abusing God&#039;s sheep.&lt;br&gt;I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1600 pastors a month, that&#039;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!&lt;br&gt;That&#039;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &quot;position&quot; in the scriptures?&lt;br&gt;In the Bible, How many congregations are... led by a pastor?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once again, How do &quot;you&quot; reconcile leaders&lt;br&gt;with &quot;Jesus&quot; telling His disciples &quot;Not&quot; to be called leader.&lt;br&gt;And none did...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Darren, I do think the word “leader&quot; is dangerous. It creates &quot;honor&quot; whether we want &quot;honor&quot; or not.&lt;br&gt;Jesus said, &quot;I receive not honor from men.&quot; &quot;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Leader&quot; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,&lt;br&gt;&quot;Titles&quot; become idols and &quot;pastors&quot; become masters. &lt;br&gt;Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are you a “servant of Christ,” or&lt;br&gt;are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In His Service. By His Grace</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren &#8211; Fairly new to the blogospear. Just heard about &#8220;The Nines.&#8221; <br />So I Googled &#8220;the Nines and leadership&#8221; and a whole bunch of sites came up.<br />The “leader” and “pastor” comments were left on over 40 sites. <br />You’re the tenth to respond. And yes I know of the book “Pagan Christianity.”</p>
<p>Just went over your site a little and Praise God,<br />seems you love the Lord and desire for others to know Him as well.</p>
<p>I have seen the dangers of &#8220;Titles,&#8221;  of &#8220;Pastors,&#8221; and of &#8220;leaders.&#8221; <br />Spiritual abuse for both the &#8220;leader&#8221; and those “being led” by man.<br />My conclusion is the word and position of “leader” is very, very dangerous for both.</p>
<p>I&#39;m not not new to &#8220;ministering healing&#8221; to those who have been abused<br />by those who &#8220;thought” they were “leaders.&#8221;<br />Folks who&#39;ve been burnt, burnt out, kicked out, or crawled out of &#8220;the religious system&#8221; <br />with it&#39;s leaders, spiritual authority, and other &#8220;heavy weights&#8221; put on folks shoulders.</p>
<p>I also spend a fair amount of time with pastors, <br />&#8220;so called leaders,&#8221; who can&#39;t do it anymore. </p>
<p>Trying to run the show, please so many masters and <br />realizing they didn’t even qualify to be an elder.</p>
<p>Trying to please the denominational leaders, the congregation and it&#39;s leaders, <br />and of course Jesus. <br />Who is often relegated to last place. Hmmm? Serving three masters, that&#39;s tough; Yes?<br />Preaching every week&#8230; and it better be good, being the CEO, the team leader, councilor, smiley face. etc. etc.</p>
<p>If &#8220;pastors&#8221; (as we see them today) are of God? <br />He&#39;s not taking very good care of His shepherds; Is He?.<br />Hmmm? Wonder why?</p>
<p>This is info from a website helping “burned out Pastors.”</p>
<p>PastorCare offers support and encouragement for pastors and their families. <br />At PastorCare we care about YOU and we want to help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.pastorcare.org/PastorCare/About_Us.html</a></p>
<p>According to the Francis A. Schaeffer Institute of Church Leadership (2007)<br />• 77% say they do “not” have a good marriage.<br />• 71% have felt burned out or depressed.<br />• 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.<br />• 40% report a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.<br />• 38% are divorced or seriously considering divorce.</p>
<p>According to the Ministering to Ministers Foundation&#8230;<br />• Over 1600 pastors in the U.S. are forced out of their positions each month.<br />• Nearly 1 in 4 pastors experience a forced termination at least once during their ministry.<br />•Only 54% of pastors go back into full-time church related positions.</p>
<p>Think we might have a problem Darren?<br />70% of pastors are depressed or burnt out. Don&#39;t have a close friend. Hmmm?<br />That&#39;s who is running the show. “Leadership?”<br />That&#39;s who is abusing God&#39;s sheep.<br />I have been both abused and the abuser. It’s not pretty.</p>
<p>1600 pastors a month, that&#39;s 18,000 a year, leave or are pushed out. Wow!!!<br />That&#39;s a lot of broken hearts, disappointments, feelings of failure, pain, abuse.</p>
<p>Hmmm? Pastor, is this a “Title” or &#8220;position&#8221; in the scriptures?<br />In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; led by a pastor?</p>
<p>Once again, How do &#8220;you&#8221; reconcile leaders<br />with &#8220;Jesus&#8221; telling His disciples &#8220;Not&#8221; to be called leader.<br />And none did&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren, I do think the word “leader&#8221; is dangerous. It creates &#8220;honor&#8221; whether we want &#8220;honor&#8221; or not.<br />Jesus said, &#8220;I receive not honor from men.&#8221; &#8220;If I honor myself, my honor is nothing.&#8221;<br />&#8220;Leader&#8221; becomes a position of honor. Warning, Warning, Warning,<br />&#8220;Titles&#8221; become idols and &#8220;pastors&#8221; become masters. <br />Leaders = lord it over = abuse = always</p>
<p>It’s always a heart issue; Isn’t it?</p>
<p>Are you a “servant of Christ,” or<br />are you “the leader? “Multitudes in the valley of decision.”</p>
<p>Yes!!! Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus.</p>
<p>In His Service. By His Grace</p>
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		<title>By: PASTOR G</title>
		<link>http://darrencalhoun.com/2009/09/the-nines-church-leadership-insight-live-today/comment-page-1/#comment-3099</link>
		<dc:creator>PASTOR G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems that the person writing is looking for the word Pastor in the bible, but we all know that the Pastor is to lead the church. He is a servant leader, it&#039;s something that the Holy Spirit reveals within us as we do something as opposed to observing &amp; looking for flaws. Roman 12:8 says if you (LEAD) do it with diligence. If you have ever reached a lost person immediately he needs someone to lead him/her because they don&#039;t know whats next. Ephesians 4 says he gave (SOME) to be Pastors, so there will be some that are not called to do that &amp; won&#039;t understand how God functions through one. Bro Darren you have a great spirit in you &amp; I see your post keep up the good work, at some point some of the writers will walk away from the keyboard &amp; actually walk to there local downtown, or community center etc., &amp; tell someone about the love &amp; forgiveness of Christ. The church &amp; those who have sacrificed their lives to serve God shouldn&#039;t be the topic, (Go Yea) into all the world should. Love you man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems that the person writing is looking for the word Pastor in the bible, but we all know that the Pastor is to lead the church. He is a servant leader, it&#8217;s something that the Holy Spirit reveals within us as we do something as opposed to observing &amp; looking for flaws. Roman 12:8 says if you (LEAD) do it with diligence. If you have ever reached a lost person immediately he needs someone to lead him/her because they don&#8217;t know whats next. Ephesians 4 says he gave (SOME) to be Pastors, so there will be some that are not called to do that &amp; won&#8217;t understand how God functions through one. Bro Darren you have a great spirit in you &amp; I see your post keep up the good work, at some point some of the writers will walk away from the keyboard &amp; actually walk to there local downtown, or community center etc., &amp; tell someone about the love &amp; forgiveness of Christ. The church &amp; those who have sacrificed their lives to serve God shouldn&#8217;t be the topic, (Go Yea) into all the world should. Love you man.</p>
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		<title>By: heyDarren</title>
		<link>http://darrencalhoun.com/2009/09/the-nines-church-leadership-insight-live-today/comment-page-1/#comment-3098</link>
		<dc:creator>heyDarren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 19:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Amos and thanks for leaving a comment. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m curious about the heart of your question.  Is your issue with the &#039;titles&#039; that are being used in the modern church? or are you saying that the roles and functions being carried out by &#039;leaders&#039; aren&#039;t what the bible models?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;From what you posted about &#039;leaders&#039; it seems like you would be fine with everything about this if they just called themselves servants.  As far as the role of &#039;pastor&#039; is concerned - I agree, in many ways it&#039;s a modern notion - as most of the structure of the modern church.  Have you checked out the book &quot;Pagan Christianity?&quot; - it goes through quite an extensive list of our modern church traditions and practices and roots their secular and pagan origins.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope to hear more of your thoughts.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;--Darren</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Amos and thanks for leaving a comment. </p>
<p>I&#39;m curious about the heart of your question.  Is your issue with the &#39;titles&#39; that are being used in the modern church? or are you saying that the roles and functions being carried out by &#39;leaders&#39; aren&#39;t what the bible models?</p>
<p>From what you posted about &#39;leaders&#39; it seems like you would be fine with everything about this if they just called themselves servants.  As far as the role of &#39;pastor&#39; is concerned &#8211; I agree, in many ways it&#39;s a modern notion &#8211; as most of the structure of the modern church.  Have you checked out the book &#8220;Pagan Christianity?&#8221; &#8211; it goes through quite an extensive list of our modern church traditions and practices and roots their secular and pagan origins.  </p>
<p>I hope to hear more of your thoughts.</p>
<p>&#8211;Darren</p>
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		<title>By: A, Amos Love</title>
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		<dc:creator>A, Amos Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm? Leadership? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just wondering how you reconcile &lt;br&gt;the use of the word “leader” &lt;br&gt;with what Jesus said in Mt 23:10. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The word “leader”seems like &lt;br&gt;a “high place.” Yes? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jesus always took and recommended &lt;br&gt;the “low place.” Yes? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jesus humbled Himself, &lt;br&gt;made himself of no reputation &lt;br&gt;and took on the form of a servant. &lt;br&gt;Php 2:7 &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jesus in Mat 23:10 told His disciples “NOT” to call &lt;br&gt;themselves master/“leaders” &lt;br&gt;for you have one master/&quot;leader” the Christ. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;King James Version - &lt;br&gt;Neither be ye called masters: &lt;br&gt;for one is your Master, even Christ. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The Interlinear Bible - &lt;br&gt;Nor be called leaders, &lt;br&gt;for one is your leader the Christ. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Phillips Modern English - &lt;br&gt;you must not let people &lt;br&gt;call you leaders, &lt;br&gt;you have only one leader, Christ. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Today&#039;s English Version - &lt;br&gt;nor should you be called leader, &lt;br&gt;your one and only leader &lt;br&gt;is the Messiah. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The Amplified- &lt;br&gt;you must not be called &lt;br&gt;masters (leaders) &lt;br&gt;for you have one master (leader) &lt;br&gt;the Christ. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jesus told His disciples “not” &lt;br&gt;to be called &quot;leaders&quot; &lt;br&gt;and none did. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ro 1:1 Paul, &lt;br&gt;a servant of Jesus Christ... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Php 1:1 Paul and Timotheus, &lt;br&gt;the servants of Jesus Christ... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Col 4:12 Epaphras, who is one of you, &lt;br&gt;a servant of Christ... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Tit 1:1 Paul, a servant of God... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jas 1:1 James, a servant of God... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2Pe 1:1 Simon Peter, a servant... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;His disciples &quot;all&quot; called themselves &quot;servants,&quot; &lt;br&gt;none called themselves &quot;leaders.&quot; None? None. &lt;br&gt;None called themselves &lt;br&gt;&quot;servant-leader.&quot; None. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If someone &lt;br&gt;calls them self a &quot;leader&quot; &lt;br&gt;or thinks they are a &quot;leader;&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are they a &quot;disciple of Christ?&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wondering some more. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Most on the list of people &lt;br&gt;at this “leadership?” event &lt;br&gt;are not only considered “ leaders?” &lt;br&gt;but also have the “Title” “Pastor.” &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Where in the Bible does it say “pastor = leader?” &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Have you done your own study &lt;br&gt;on pastors? &lt;br&gt;I mean in the Bible? &lt;br&gt;What does the Bible say &lt;br&gt;about pastors? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Makes an interesting study. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Here’s some questions to ask &lt;br&gt;as you check out pastors. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1 - In the Bible, How many people... &lt;br&gt;have the title pastor? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2 - In the Bible, How many people are... &lt;br&gt;referred to as pastor? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3 - In the Bible, How many people are... &lt;br&gt;ordained as a pastor? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;4 - In the Bible, How many congregations are... &lt;br&gt;led by a pastor? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Be blessed in your search for truth... Jesus &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And other sheep I have, &lt;br&gt;which are not of this fold: &lt;br&gt;them also I must bring, &lt;br&gt;and they shall hear my voice; &lt;br&gt;and there shall be one fold, &lt;br&gt;and one shepherd. &lt;br&gt;John 10:16 &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;One Fold - One Shepherd - One Voice. &lt;br&gt;If Not Now, When? &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Be blessed and be a blessing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm? Leadership? </p>
<p>Just wondering how you reconcile <br />the use of the word “leader” <br />with what Jesus said in Mt 23:10. </p>
<p>The word “leader”seems like <br />a “high place.” Yes? </p>
<p>Jesus always took and recommended <br />the “low place.” Yes? </p>
<p>Jesus humbled Himself, <br />made himself of no reputation <br />and took on the form of a servant. <br />Php 2:7 </p>
<p>Jesus in Mat 23:10 told His disciples “NOT” to call <br />themselves master/“leaders” <br />for you have one master/&#8221;leader” the Christ. </p>
<p>King James Version &#8211; <br />Neither be ye called masters: <br />for one is your Master, even Christ. </p>
<p>The Interlinear Bible &#8211; <br />Nor be called leaders, <br />for one is your leader the Christ. </p>
<p>Phillips Modern English &#8211; <br />you must not let people <br />call you leaders, <br />you have only one leader, Christ. </p>
<p>Today&#39;s English Version &#8211; <br />nor should you be called leader, <br />your one and only leader <br />is the Messiah. </p>
<p>The Amplified- <br />you must not be called <br />masters (leaders) <br />for you have one master (leader) <br />the Christ. </p>
<p>Jesus told His disciples “not” <br />to be called &#8220;leaders&#8221; <br />and none did. </p>
<p>Ro 1:1 Paul, <br />a servant of Jesus Christ&#8230; </p>
<p>Php 1:1 Paul and Timotheus, <br />the servants of Jesus Christ&#8230; </p>
<p>Col 4:12 Epaphras, who is one of you, <br />a servant of Christ&#8230; </p>
<p>Tit 1:1 Paul, a servant of God&#8230; </p>
<p>Jas 1:1 James, a servant of God&#8230; </p>
<p>2Pe 1:1 Simon Peter, a servant&#8230; </p>
<p>His disciples &#8220;all&#8221; called themselves &#8220;servants,&#8221; <br />none called themselves &#8220;leaders.&#8221; None? None. <br />None called themselves <br />&#8220;servant-leader.&#8221; None. </p>
<p>If someone <br />calls them self a &#8220;leader&#8221; <br />or thinks they are a &#8220;leader;&#8221; </p>
<p>Are they a &#8220;disciple of Christ?&#8221; </p>
<p>Wondering some more. </p>
<p>Most on the list of people <br />at this “leadership?” event <br />are not only considered “ leaders?” <br />but also have the “Title” “Pastor.” </p>
<p>Where in the Bible does it say “pastor = leader?” </p>
<p>Have you done your own study <br />on pastors? <br />I mean in the Bible? <br />What does the Bible say <br />about pastors? </p>
<p>Makes an interesting study. </p>
<p>Here’s some questions to ask <br />as you check out pastors. </p>
<p>1 &#8211; In the Bible, How many people&#8230; <br />have the title pastor? </p>
<p>2 &#8211; In the Bible, How many people are&#8230; <br />referred to as pastor? </p>
<p>3 &#8211; In the Bible, How many people are&#8230; <br />ordained as a pastor? </p>
<p>4 &#8211; In the Bible, How many congregations are&#8230; <br />led by a pastor? </p>
<p>Be blessed in your search for truth&#8230; Jesus </p>
<p>And other sheep I have, <br />which are not of this fold: <br />them also I must bring, <br />and they shall hear my voice; <br />and there shall be one fold, <br />and one shepherd. <br />John 10:16 </p>
<p>One Fold &#8211; One Shepherd &#8211; One Voice. <br />If Not Now, When? </p>
<p>Be blessed and be a blessing.</p>
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		<title>By: heyDarren</title>
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		<dc:creator>heyDarren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 00:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#theNines is now over. LOTS of great insights and information was shared.  See what you missed and follow-up on this event here: &lt;a href=&quot;http://thenines.leadnet.org/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://thenines.leadnet.org/&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#theNines is now over. LOTS of great insights and information was shared.  See what you missed and follow-up on this event here: <a href="http://thenines.leadnet.org/" rel="nofollow">http://thenines.leadnet.org/</a></p>
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